It is sad to say, but it is also true that you can learn a lot about yourself through an extra marital affair. I know that I personally did when I had an affair with a London mistress . At first I just blamed it all on human nature, but then I started to realize that I had to take at least some of the blame for what I had done. It is just not fair to blame things on other people all the time. I only wish that I had realized this sooner.
It is not that there is anything illegal about having an affair, but there seems to be some kind of inner moral objection to the whole thing. If you do this behind someone’s back, then you certainly feel that you have betrayed them. It is not something that I ever want to feel again, but there is always the possibility that I could find myself in this situation once more.